Uncleared moment of confusion

This post is about an blur vision in my mind that lead to an uncleared solution that till now it is classified as "X".

I got a friend who is a Man who got $500/month can save $200/month
& me as an officer got $830/month & save $0/month...

What if I am not an officer now?
Getting $500/month?
Will I still able to sustain my relationship with my girlfriend?
Can I still able give her what she want?
What she deserve?
How?

Time = $
$ = Time
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Army = No time = NT
Officer = NT + $
Man = NT + (-$)
(Note that it is a negative showing lesser allowance)
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If I decided to sign on:
Officer = NT + (2 x $)

No worries at all
Lump sum of $20,000 that could plan for marriage
Stable income for the future living
High monthly income that could have more
CPF saving + more $ able to save
In addition, your salary increase every year.
Down payment for housing is settled.
Overall, a lot of the time is given out.
~ *NO FREEDOM* ~
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If I decided not to sign on:
Civilian = (2 x T) + ($)
(Got $ but need longer time)
Why ?
You & your girlfriend definitely need entertainment, enjoying together
While having that frequently at the moment,
You also need to save $
For marriage & house.
NOW...
Have you consider about giving monthly allowances for your MUM, your DAD?
So now ...
How long you need?
5yrs? 7yrs? 10yrs? 13yrs? 15yrs?
Wife how old already?


Ways to change :




                            BE YOUR OWN BOSS

Reasons:
Earn more $
Possibility to break poverty cycle

Consequences:
Business sustainable & earn profit, live a better life
OR
Business failed result in Bankrupt 

                               OR






                                                 Gambling


Reasons:
Fastest way to earn $
Easiest way to earn $
Possibility to break poverty cycle


Consequences:
INSTANT RICH 
OR
BANKRUPT 
OWN A HUGE DEBT
Lastly.........


                  BANKRUPT + OWN A HUGE DEBT
                 + TIME REPAYING DEBT



So,,,,,
Now the question is

                                                        Will I Going to MAKE IT?


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Please be reminded to read the title again
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